Are Thai girls really all about Money?
You hear a lot about how Thai girls suck you dry, squeeze you for money left right and center. How if you want to have a Thai girlfriend your going to need to have a lot of money. Some guys go as far as going broke dating a Thai girl, you'd be left thinking the same thing, that having a Thai girlfriend and dating Thai girls is very expensive, well I think that's so far from the actual truth that in fact it's the guys that think like that are the ones that get fleeced. Even if you're meeting them on a Thai dating site it still happens.
Yesterday I was at immigration getting a re-entry permit for Thailand. Very simple procedure by the way only cost 1000 baht for a single. So I'm there and this older gentleman started making conversation typical Australian. Anyway, so he asks me what I'm doing here, I made a complicated response easy by telling him I'm here to study Thai. So why Thai he asks and my standard reply "For the chicks man!". lol. "Well" he says with his know it all attitude. "Let me tell you a thing or two" he goes on to tell me how he's lived here for 30 years and that I'll need a tonne of money if I'm going to have a Thai girlfriend or date Thai girls.
After he told me all this I immediately knew that after 30 years in Thailand he still didn't get the game, then he walked up to the immigration officer and started speaking loudly and was rather obnoxious so I dismissed the guy and went on with my day. But I did start thinking you know, how could someone live here for 30 years and still don't get the game? His Thai wasn't very good and that was part of the problem but I think many guys coming to Thailand see the bar girls and think that all Thai girls want someone to give them money, sure, who doesn't want them to give them money, but the fact that they think that's the game they are so wrong!
echo adrotate_ad(42);Let me explain here, the majority of Thai girls don't date westerners, they date Thai men. In fact some actually only like Thai guys. And for the majority of Thai guys they have little to no money. You can learn a lot from how Thai guys do things here, their not paying out of their ass for dating 1, 2 sometimes 3 girls at a time, in fact many of them have the girls pay! And you know why they don't pay ridiculous amounts of money? Because THEY UNDERSTAND THE GAME!
I'm definitely no Tom Cruise I have just enough money for myself yet I have multiple girlfriends, have threesomes with random Uni girls every week and the odd one night stand here and there and I don't pay anything! I don't even pay for girls drinks if I go out, and you know why? Because I play the game! The game is simple and if you understand it you can get laid all the time have as many girlfriends as you have time for and never have to bed a skanky bar girl again.
The Game
First of all the game I play is for the younger girls 16-22 I don't know much about girls older than this because that's not my thing so I can't give suggestions on that but the girls in this age bracket I know a lot about. There are two types of girls in this range there are the Money Girls and there are the Curious girls. The money girls are easy to spot, you talk to them on the phone or in person and you'll hear lines like "I want a notebook", "I want an apartment" then there are the curious girls they say things like "I don't dare do that" and "I'm scared to do that". I prefer the curious girls because they arn't interested in money but you can play the game with the money girls too but it takes more manipulation and sadly you might have to lead them on a bit.
Typically the money girls are willing to do what you want as long as you pay them to do it, it's not usually money they are after as they take that as an insult as if they are hookers, typically they just want to be taken care of be given "gifts" which in turn costs you money. These girls can be easily led on but what you need to have is a girlfriend. That's right, the money girls are easier if you have a girlfriend, this is because they want what your girlfriend has or is perceived to have. Even if you don't have a girlfriend and the girl starts talking about wanting a laptop, easy, tell them that you just recently bought your girlfriend the latest Mac laptop. Initially she might be oh no you have a girlfriend. But that's just what she's saying, in her mind she's thinking wow I want to be his girlfriend so I can get a laptop. Now that she knows you have a girlfriend just mention how things arn't that great at home and that's why your meeting her. This gives her an opportunity and motivation to make you happy. This works regularly for me. Take her to the local curtain hotel and get with her for free with only the cost of the hotel about 180 baht! Now the girlfriend trick works and it works better than you think because now you have a girlfriend this money girl won't turn into a stalker girl because Thai girls are afraid of other Thai girls and she won't come anywhere near your place if she knows you have a girlfriend there, perfect!
Now the next Thai girl to play the game with is the Curious Girl. Curious Thai girls typically don't speak much English so this is where you need to come loaded with plenty of Thai language skills, the more Thai you know the better. If you don't have any Thai but have a girlfriend that speaks Thai of course use her and go for lesbians and bisexual girls, my girlfriend finds these kinds of girls everywhere and typically all it takes is going out for 1 or two drinks in order for the GF to convince her to come back to our place for a roll around the hay.
Even if you don't have a g/f that is willing to do this and your Thai skills arn't great you should be able to pull this off because in the end the girl wants to do it, she just needs to be coaxed into it. Alternatively you may have a Thai friend (must be a girl) that can help you negotiate and convince her, I've used a Thai cousin (from my step mom) and it worked worked well.
So the curious Thai girls are the ones you more often meet. If a Thai girl is meeting you for a date or anything like that and she's not a money girl 100% she has either thought about doing it with a farang before and probably wants to try. It's your job to convince her that your the one to try it with.
Don't waste any time wining and dining a curious Thai girl, more than likely she's never had anyone do that for her before so why should you do it now? Your just wasting your money, Thai guys don't do that either, they take the girls to eat cheap noodles a quick beer at the bar and then straight down to business. Me personally I skip it all and before I meet the girl I let her know what I want. When I meet her I'll say that I want to go here and I want to do this. She'll say the same thing "I'm scared" "I wouldn't dare" just stand around repeating yourself until she gives in and says OK. I can't tell you how many times i've done this but it's a lot, and it's the same thing every time. Curious Thai girls want to try and that's the only reason why there meeting you in the first place. If she didn't want to do it with you she wouldn't be meeting you in the first place, as long as you don't say your going to wine and dine her and she still meets with you it's in the bag. Don't get suckered in!
Final thoughts on Thai girls who only want money
As explained previously the truth is Thai girls arn't all about money. Sure there like anyone in the world they want to have enough to live, some want some to give to their parents, but like everyone else in the world they always want more. If you believe that Thai girls are expensive and only want money, then that's all your going to meet, you've convinced yourself that's the way it is. Sure Thai girls see farang and have dollar signs in their eyes but they do that with anyone really even Thai guys who drive a new model car. But I've never ever heard a Thai guy say that Thai girls are expensive. Most Thai girls are happier eating a bowl of noodles than they are an expensive french restaurant. Stop thinking that you need to treat Thai girls the same way you treat western women. The reason why you want a Thai girl is because she isn't a western woman!
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There are Thai girls out there who are only out to fleece you of your money. Don't be fooled, they are good at it. You just need to play the game better. Stay away from the bar girls because they are used and abused and care nothing more than money. But a high school girl or first year uni student are curious and low on cash but wouldn't dream of selling themselves. These are the girls that are easiest to manipulate and if you want to get laid, regularly then this is your group. I know plenty of uni girls that if you got them an apartment for 2000 - 3000 baht a month you could go visit them every day and get some action if you like a regular girl i recommend this sort of sponsor a thai girl arrangement because it works out cheaper. But if you like the weekly shag with a different girl then just pay for the curtain hotel. Either way your not paying for the girl your just paying for the location a place to do it with her and nothing more.
Bottom line is if you want Thai girls without paying money for them then you need three things, First you need a Thai girlfriend, so you don't get stalkers and who can help you hook up with other girls, your Thai girl won't do this, then find one that will. Secondly you need to be able to speak Thai or at least have a Thai speaking wing man/woman. Thirdly you need to stop thinking that you need to give every Thai girl you meet money because you don't, they just want to try a farang so only give them that, nothing more.
Good luck guys hope you learned something and if you have a comment please add below.
should be careful of what u write! you put Thai girls in 2 types, money girls and curious girls.. and what is the rests?? I am not fit in these 2 types at all..Shouldn’t conclude that all Thai girls in Thailand apply to your assumption. this is just a certain group of people who act and think differently, not the decent and majority of Thai girls. Quite shameful, There are many things here in Thailand to write instead of how to get laid with Thai girls. !
I write about many things in Thailand, the good the bad and the ugly. I do believe there are two types of girls, if you don’t then tell me what groups they are then i’ll certainly think about it. Yes there are exceptions to the rule. But just as Thai people think all farang have money i’m certainly entitled to believe and make a statement that there are two types of Thai girls.
I think u cant do this in your country coz u have no brain enough to dating girl in your country . if you will write bad things like this should get the fuck out of thailand.
the person like this dont know really about thai culture and thai life. U just live in low class . some of thai guys , they date with thai girls in high value not cheap one like that. I do think u cant support girls in your country. if you do not live just Thai so whereelse do you have live then? i just curious how u gonna write or telling people in each counrtry so i will wait and see .
The reason I can write about this is because I do know about Thai culture and Thai people. It’s more likely your just annoyed that I know this and speak the truth that you are angry. I’ve lived in many countries and have had girlfriends from many different countries. Your narrow mind suggests that you have not the world experience such as me. This is a blog about Thailand and Thai girls so i’ll keep the posts about Thailand for now, thank you.
Listen you asshole if you are only commenting on two types of girls then stay in your own country and look what they are like before you go and spout bullshit about another country as a married man to a beautiful Thai wife and after spending a very long time in THAILAND i can say that you do not know what you are talking about most of the girls that you play don’t want to do this but have to for there family as all Thai people have one thing that the rest of the world does not FAMILY COMES FIRST and you have to do what you can for your family [it is male dominated society and woman must do everything] even if that means trying to get money from you to give to there family so don’t judge them by your standards as you are no better than the old guy you talked to
Thanks for your very straightforward response Jim. Firstly the article deals with girls aged 16-22 and you are married to a Thai woman who looks like shes well into her mid-40s however I have two girlfriends aged 18 and 20 plus we have a bisexual lover aged 20. Plus the weekly girls we find every week. I talk to many girls around this age and therefore my experience is more than you. I don’t know what your talking about why girls do this because of their family, the article talks mostly about girls who have sex for fun and nothing to do with money, did you actually read it? Secondly most of the girls I know come from respectable families with money and arn’t out to scam me nor are they interested in money. So really your attack on me is unwarranted and unjustified.
The truth is most of the girls in the ages of 16-22 are either looking for money or experience and fun, even if you don’t agree I don’t feel it’s worth throwing unsults at me, I bet you put people in a box all the time, you are certainly putting me in a box!
Why is it the men have to support women? Were we born to be a woman’s donkey? It the USA women have 100% equal rights. The right they don’t seem to want is the right to have to “support” a man! Why does a dick in a pussy have to be an ATM withdrawal transaction? Why is love a beaten discarded afterthought? Perhaps thai women should lay off the old ugly farang. Then maybe the one who hate can feel better about their lives.
girl in thailand same as all country in this world somegood some bad same same in ur country also, for sample : like some family in ur town not all people in one family be good person right??? same!!!!! in Thailand we have lots thing for interested about food, people, beach, temple, and cheap here, hope u r get really good girl in this world, takecare….. thanks.
Thank you, actually i’ve found a good Thai girl already and I love her to bits thank you.
First, excellent article as usual. Many readers missed that you are talking about younger women. I agree 100%. I never pay for sex in Thailand either – and I am 50. Why? Because a decent looking farang who is polite, soft spoken with a bit of Thai, has hair on his head and with a big white pecker is hot property, especially when the wife tells her friends how you do her 3 x a day and how many orgasms she gets etc… A good reputation attracts certain curious or needy women like a shit attracts flies. The girlfriend/wife thing is good too, especially if it is true. I use that. My wife sometimes asks me to do her friends. Had to make another Teacher pregnant the other day. She wants a cute white baby. The hubby does my aircon and agreed. Never gave her a penny. Another teacher moved from south of Thailand with her kid so I could fuck her once a week. The last one knitted me a pillow with a big heart as a thank you, so sweet. My wife likes the pillow by the way. My Thai step son is 19 and rents off me – correction his 21 year old girlfriend pays and buys him clothes and shit. He changes every couple of months. Good boy. Then I see those idiots throwing money at Thai women, it makes me puke, man.
Hi Tone
Im your age with your qualities not white but tanned skin. Would love to get some tips from you as don’t speak much thai and refuse to sleep with prostitutes.
Appreciate your reply
Regds
Eddie
Chris. You’re young, so I can see that the answer to the Quantity vs. Quality question seems to be :Both (Sadly there is not enough time,life is just too short) But what about physical health? Specifically AIDS. A little worried . R.
Sadly even a condom is not 100%.
And you’re OK with that? Roll the dice enough times– . I guess I’ll just stick with my 1 ,She provides more than enough problems and pleasures( and problems) to keep me busy. Thanks. R
Everyone has the right to live how they want, I think it’s admirable guys who can stick with one girl, I just don’t think i can do it.
gpowacht , I am sure Chris is not right and he is just an poor , idiot, illiterate backpacker ( whatever his claim may be, I know them as I was in US and Europe for long time) . But I feel few thing about Thai people ( specially in Bangkok, North is bit different) are strikingly bad. They are just fanatic with white skin. All looser from white country ( whom we actually out played in their own game with our wit) gather your in Thailand and abuse your daughters and sisters and your government treat them like god. I am sorry but you are treated absolutely right.Western people or culture is not bad but believe me these backpackers are waste. They even can not do simple arithmetic , filthy in taste and behavior. If you like to go to bed with them who can help you anyway.
Ask your history , whom your culture derived . And ask yourself whom you are selling you soul, you will get the answer yourself. Sorry if I hurt you,my intention is not hurting you rather help you understand the reality.
poor backpacker, that’s classic!
yes.. oh u understand wht classic means!!! i m overwhilmed..but basically u ppl are stigma of western culture…and ppl need to know u don’t represnt them.
ya go to thailand to enjoy the lovely beaches and cheap lifestyle never mind goin mad to have sex with thai women ya will be fighting them off anyway
I just found your website and I comment one of your old text: “The Types Of Ladyboys In Thailand”
That was typical “tourist comment2 about ladyboys. Those who know only bar girls and prostitutes.
Those ladyboys who are my friends are mostly hardworking (all kind of normal jobs) and many times lonely lb:s who need and are looking for steady boyfriend.
Magnus
There are of course group of Thai people who are civilized and decent enough not to adore fa-rangs and their money..There are always 2 sides , good and bad ,and with your experience in bad side of Thailand then you thought that all Thai people are as what you think, you are very narrow minded to apply this.
Just wondering, if you think this is bad and disgusting, still you enjoy it and can live with it , then I can understand what kind of class you are in..you are one of the exceptional fa-rang who not civilized enough to respect other people’s lives as other westerners do. conservative and rude
Also I can see that ,in your case, education is not bringing anything good at all to you.. IF here Thailand is bad, get the hell out of Thailand, go back to your civilization and your western girls. Open your mind and GROW UP !!
Ummm, you read the article right? because the article is about me defending Thai women in a way. I am basically saying that most Thai girls are NOT all about money and are basically like western women where the game also applies to them. I don’t even say anything to indicate that i’ve had bad experiences nor do I think Thailand is bad.
thanks.
The fact is California women are a damnsite more interested in a man’s money than Thai girls. Thai girls are similar, but are satisfied with 1/3rd of the cash. And they act like women if you treat them right. “Cute” American women are too stuck up for that. And they wonder why American men are looking overseas. They tend to be not very bright either.
Education!!! are you joking. They only have mandatory education which doesn’t teach anything. just ask him to multiply 2*5 , his brain will stop thinking, ha ha ha
I’m Thai and not very good in English. I want to know how many Thai people do you know. What kind of your think with human around the world. In the future , perhaps I may seen your another topic “Sex in Thai v.s. Japan”. Ha…ha…ha…
Ask to your friends how about Thai culture not how about Thai girls.
I know many Thai people, you bring up a good topic i might write about that.
I m 29 (Thai Lady)…sorry ,I m not fluent in ENG. but would i tell u pls, I have been living in BBK for 10 years more and graduated from Uni’ in BBK also, I think not overall of Thai Uni ‘girls has been done the bad things as u wrote .Everyone in the world have 2 side are good and bad , I have my BF from AUS he never look down on Thai girls coz he said in AUS has the girls whose play the game too. He always respect and optimistic to Thai culture ,and only accept such a good side of Thailand. I never upset to u . maybe u ever met some bad experienced in your life before, Unfortunately for u . Nobody perfects even girls in ur country and all girls in the world …God Bless U and hope u gonna be change ur attitude about Thailand Girls !! Thx a lots guy
I think your English is fine, though your about 10 years above the girls of this generation so it’s difficult for you to relate. Firstly I don’t look down on Thai girls, I love thai girls and I don’t say anywhere they have a bad heart, they have good hearts. I havn’t met bad experiences with Thai girls but I know MANY men who have. The reason I don’t meet bad experiences is because I don’t fall for bad women. The article is a how to guide to get with Thai women, REAL thai women not bar girls or girls looking for money. Sure you might not like the fact that I like to sleep around with women and I show other guys how to do that, but the fact is I do and well there are many Thai girls out there that don’t mind doing this either. I’m trying to teach farang men how to find and lay the easy Thai girls many people have written about the subject in america and australia but not for Thailand so this is where I come in. As a woman I understand you wouldn’t agree to this however the article isn’t meant for Thai women it’s meant to be read by farang men.
You are certainly a pioneer in this regard. Bringing and creating a ”players society” in LOS. It’s funny how your blog is being badly misinterpreted. One needs a open and ”hustler” state of mind to understand your posts. I can see you are a true Pick up artist, me saying this as a colleague player.
I am one of Thai women. And I want to confirm you that:: Not all women like as you said. There are many many nice Thai girls but maybe you have a BAD LUCK. You have to ask yourself first , which kind of girl you want to meet ? Where are you looking for that girls?? In every Country they have such kind of women as you said… Did you have any expirence in other Country?? If Thai Lady is not nice or I don’t know what to said… Why so many Farang come to married with this girls.. Why don’t you marry with WOMEN from your country???
I don’t know what that people think??
If you have a little bit POSITIVE THINKINK .. I think this world gonna be really perfect world…
I never said thai women are all the same. At this point in time i’m just looking for girls for sex, it’s a fact. Yes I’ve lived in californai and australia and all girls from every country are great. I’ve never said thai girls arn’t I don’t think you understand what i’m writing.
After reading so many comments, I just have to say that Chris wrote in a rather positive way. He never gave me the feeling he is looking down on any women, neither in Thailand nor anywhere else. If one doesn’t like that he is looking for sex with Thai girls, as he is in Thailand that is one thing but donb’t twist his words. I think once he found out how to deal with girls or young women, he adors them for what they are. And by the way it always needs two!
@aa Farangs come here and marry thai girls because that girls treat them like a king. Whatever the reason may be (Money, love, sex, status etc.). And frankly Many farangs are tricked and they loose everything. som nom na 😉
I’ve been here for 10 years and my friends are 99% thai. I also like it here and many people tell me im like a thai person because i’ve been here since i was 13.
Now coming here was not my choice and since i’ve practically been here all my life ill continue to live here.
And one thing to falangs: I just dont understand why you have to go and choose the ugliest, darkest, skoii girl that you can find in a bar…. most things that happen to you are a result of this… If you want a good girl dont even go to a bar or club because most girls there are …. well you know what i mean.
One more thing, FALANGS come here for fun and sex…… and if it wasnt for farangs Thailand would be like cambodia, laos or even isan!!
So to most thai people: i love thailand, but next time you want to blame a falang you thank them first!
And to MOST falangs: Next time you wanna complain about a girl doing this and that to you, think about how and where you found her.
Khun Kris
I am one of Thail lady and I won’t agree or accept the bad thing you said. You couldn’t say thai girl have two kind becasue every people different some good and some bad even at your country. People around you possible can be like you said but not all the country. I thought you might got some problem in your brain. Please look at your self how good you are?? I don’t want to say you are bad guy but please think if some people be just some city of your contry and said all of your people is bad how is your feeling.
I would ask you go out from my country bad people like you should go out. Fucking bad farang go away
wow such hostility, it’s Chris not Kris btw. Well the truth is the majority of thai girls in that age bracket do belong in two groups it’s a fact, there are exceptions of course, just like any rule.
you r 100% right
Hi Chris,
I think the problem is some Thai girls make you think that we are easy and just want the money. I don’t deny that. Money is important but money isn’t everything that we want. And yes, a lot of Thai men play the game just like you wrote it here. That is the main reason we don’t want to date with Thai men. The way they take advantage of women is unacceptable. At the moment more and more Thai girls change their minds to date with Farang because they don’t like the way thai men treat them. And you take it’s like a game. You want to do the same as men everywhere in the world (not just for thai men) think they can do what ever they want to do with girls. Your problem is not just for thai girls. I think you have the same problem with anywhere you live. If you still don’t understand what women want!!!!
Hey Farang’s Girl!
You hit it straight on the head.
Men want sex.
Women want EVERYTHING…………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………….
That’s a Chris Rock joke: “While you’re banging away, having a good time, she’s counting the money.”
Hey Farang’s Girl!
Thats very well said , i really appreciate your words . Now all of you help me out though i am moving out of Chris’s topic but anyways . I am planing to come to Bangkok with my wife on 21st January and i shall be there till 28 January .
How should i plan my trip so that i could view the best places in Bangkok, Pataya etc , Where should i plan to stay and which are reasonable hotels there ? What are the means of cheap and best means of transport , what things should i carry with myself etc . What things i should opt to purchase ?
You all are requested to guide and mail me if possible on [email protected]
I agree with you, you should just try to be a good person and my Thai girlfriend showed me this……and always take care
MONEY!!
Not all I agree and as it is said there are many different women around everywhere. I am sure there are a lot of decent Thai women, I bet most are like this, around. However how many farangs have trusted them, build a house i Thailand for him and his loved wife and suddenly was kicked out with no chance of getting anything back? It is said that negative headlines build a publics opinion. So I am always glad to learn from others experience in order to be left out with the bad experience. Tell me how many women who live abroad gamble and loose thousands of $, Euros etc!!! I always respect the person I am dealing with and if I play with a girl who is looking for the same thing I do then it is a kind of respectful game where both get what they are looking for (hopefully)!
Hi Chris,
If you think thai girls all about momey. Why don’t u get out !Go find the good girls in your country ? Are you reasonable ,talented ? You will understand some bad some good everywhere.
you obviously didn’t read the article or don’t understand english enough to understand that I was saying that Thai girls are NOT all about money.
Chris,
Her response is my favorite, because she see’s something she does not understand and fires back at you, even though you are defending her. I love it. This happens to me in every Thai relationship I have been in, if I tell a girl why she stands out among other thai women, as I am explaining thier flaws, she confuses my english and gets pissed because the flaws that others might have, now have become hers. I almost don’t want to speak… This happens quite a bit. I have learned some basic Thai beyond greetings, but I have yet to successfully convey how I feel in a positive manner, without them totally confusing the situation. Much like this girls response to something she obviously did not understand
oh i have to tell my young sister to take more care and becareful of farang. far a way from farang as much as possible
555
don’t worry every one in the world are most supportive.
XD you tunny! I’m totally agree
Almost 20 years ago I met what to me remains the definition of Thai people.
Travelling alone in Central Thailand I got sick, I didn’t speak Thai, I didn’t know anyone – I was ill and alone in a place I could not ask for help.
I found a doctor at a clinic – one of those local village places that have a thin curtain between the ‘Consulting Room’ and the hoard of patients outside.
Everyone was listening to me trying to talk to the doctor.
A Thai women who was there to see the doctor came to help me – I could not understand what she said but she lead me to a Samlor…. two days later I woke in her house.
My clothes washed, beside my bed – my bed the only mattress in the house and covered by the only mosquito net.
Next to my clothes some food and water – no fine drinking glasses , just old beer cans with the top cut off to make a drinking cup.
A stranger in this country – in need of care – helped by a woman so poor but so rich in humanity.
Now – Tell me what you know about Thai women….???!!!
20 years ago I came to Thailand too, I went to Nana plaza as a 11 year old and the girls there were putting their hands down my pants and grabbing my weaner. Now – tell me what you know about Thai women?
Your story makes no sense and doesn’t have anything to do with the context of the article, what point are you trying to make please tell me?
Chris, I ended up at Nana by accident, and had to stay 4 months for a lease. My fiancee left after a month. ($$$, bait for Thai tourism I guess, but good bait!) I can tell Nana is a place those kind of women migrate to from all over Thailand. They don’t really want to, they wish they could be “good women”, but they make so much freaking money that they can hardly do anything else. I pity them, I really do.
Stay out of the bars and you will learn what Thai women really think, if you have not gotten an earful enough already!
Isn’t 11 a little young to be hanging out in Nana? Blame your father, not the girls.
Dear Brian,
I love what you wrote. Yes, the writer of this article must have some bad background in his upbringing. His attitude is way too low. Life is more meaningful than getting laid as much as one can. It may be true but this kind of attitude or tricks need not to be bragged in public! It’s rather a shame.
Everyone has different experiences in Thailand….some good some bad….but its all about the experience….I have been really sick in Thailand and they always try to help you….Thai culture
Hi,Chris what u write that is ugly truth,i can’t blame on u.
yes i too totaly agree with what you say people do not like to hear the truth about there country. from my experiance in over the years soon as you they know you ar not completely ignorant of the culture and they can’t play you they are gone.
Hmmm … after read this, agree more than disagree. I think I got your point. “Most or some of us” not “all of us”. I’m Thai, and I’m a woman. Your attitude and your experience can tell that who are and who are not the types you are talking about, and you just share your experience to some foreigners who come here with a wish to play the same game as you do so your blog doesn’t annoy me but I’m quite interested in it – as much as the other blogs that share about how stupid sex tourist is so it’s good to read many topics and hear many opinions.
If someone comes to your blog and yell at you it’s because they are not the types you are mention or they are not your target so this blog annoys them and for some who are enjoyed I hope they don’t try all Thai girls with this game or think that all Thai are the same. We can’t stop the fact. Some girls choose to do so I hope they are smart enough to identify that who they can play with and who they should give a respect.
Some foreigners are sex tourist. Some comes because a friend of a friend told them about your blog that “there’s a secret to get Thai girls without paying any cents!!”. Some tourist comes because they like Thailand, they like our culture, our food and they respect our people so there are two types of tourist or maybe more than two too (but that doesn’t bother me at all) that’s why I don’t care how you set the type for us. Just know who and how we are, that’s lovely.
Do you have Thai girl-friends, not only girlfriends or playmates? Do you have Thai boy-friends too? It’s interesting to know. If you do, I hope you hear positive attitude about the rest of Thai girls from them too, right? I understand that you like my country at some point so enjoy the days here. By the way, you learn Thai to flirt with the girl? Hope it’s a joke. I thought you learn it because you like the country or you like the language, or it’s true? Haha .. I learn the second language for work not to get the boy.
Anyway, if you want to share your experience to your foreigner friends or other tourists or your followers, let’s try the good part also. There are a lot. Aren’t, Chris? 😉
Yes I learned Thai mostly so i can hook up with Thai girls, sorry it’s true, yes I have 2 Thai girlfriends they both know as well. No I don’t have a boyfriend i’m not that way. Yes I love Thailand and it has much to offer besides Thai girls and I do write many stories about the good in Thailand as well. This is a great country but it would not be fair if I only had a blog that focused on only the good.
No I think she means do you have any thai girls that are just friends, and any guys that you are friends with. Not that you are dating them, just people you are friends with.
Wow you copped some slack over this article. Loma is the only the second person whose comments I have read that actually looks like they read the article instead of the headline. I don’t think you are necessarily looking down on thai women, you’re just dating young thai women and not really looking for anything too serious right now. Which from your other articles is pretty obvious. Anyway you write pretty well Chris, don’t let these people get you down you make me laugh my arse off sometimes
i’m thai girl and not so good english, But i feel really so sad after read about it.i sad the words you type on seem look down on thai woman and i don’t know what to say because you teach man how to play game with thai woman and thai woman all want only money. is not true!!! you should change your mind and becareful what you speak out…, i wish you get HIV oneday because you like to fuck around.
It amazes me how many of you keep reading this and think that what I said is that Thai women are all about money. How can you be able to write the sentence above and still not get the context of the article. Unbelievable.
Whatever is up, I wish Thai girls wouldn’t be sad. Just because men around the world think they are very beautiful? We certainly do not look down on Thai women! That is from your sisters.
About 1/2 are farang are jerks, and about 1/2 are not. Its just life.
to So sad… :
You’ve mentioned it. Your English is not so good. I haven’t found here any sentence stating that ALL Thai girls were after money. Your English is not good enough to understand this post, it’s fine, just don’t judge someone’s blog if you are not able to understand it.
…’so sad’ said: ” i wish you get HIV oneday because you like to fuck around”.
-what a shame coming from a pretty girl (see photo). Perhaps the beauty on the outside really IS her only attribute, albeit one which has a definite use by date ticking down every day. You’d think she’d make more of an effort to highlight her other attributes a man might find worthwhile in a woman… considering this external beauty is so fleeting.
If this is what’s in her pretty Thai girl head when she uses that temporary beauty to ensnare a ‘man’, he’s made the wrong choice. And that’s why you keep all your assets in a first world country drip feeding a modest income back to yourself in Thailand. Thai girls who become aware of this when they’re living with ME, get really frustrated by it, the ‘restriction’ of ca$hflow…in. It’s a great separator of the genuine girls and the non-genuine. Best giveaway line angrily blurted out from the last ‘live in girlfriend’ was that “you don’t give Mum money”. Applying my first rule of engagement to this, what she MEANT to say was I don’t “give Mum ALL MY SPARE money”. This in the face of 12,857 baht a month sent to ‘Mum’ on a drip feed basis like clockwork every Friday, and another 10,000 straight she got through the month to do anything she wanted with. I never really saw any of THAT part getting sent off to Mum, but there were lots of ‘salon’ visits and new clothes etc happening on our end. I was holding back on her request for teeth braces, a titty job and the latest Samsung galaxy 10.1, but she never made it past the integrity test period. I guess I’ll just have to keep that money for my Farang penis reduction.
So Rule of Engagement #1 helped me figure out what she REALLY meant (that Rule states that every word coming out of a Thai’s mouth is a lie until you can PROVE otherwise). The rule has served me well. What a sad indictment it is that the nicer you are to them, the more they see it as a chance to screw you over…a convenient weakness to be exploited.
My advice after making mistakes on the learning curve, is: You get LOVE and 100% loyalty from your dog… get a dog. You get stunning female beauty from a pretty young Thai girl. Get a photo.
Rule of Engagement #2 by the way (a learned Rule) is don’t let them in your house, and preferably don’t let them know where your house IS. Moving house all the time IS a pain, trust me. We’re talking every 2 months if you don’t apply rule 2…now that’s easy to remember! And get a Playstation 4 for when you’re miserable and alone in that house…this will be from about 9am-2pm every day.
There’s so much more, but that’s enough for now. I just had to comment about the nasty minded pretty girl who is so representative of this ‘attitude problem’ many (Thai) girls seem to have. It’s the reason why my Rules of Engagement were born. Before that, I used to be a nice guy. Too bad none of the girls were smart enough to snap me up at that stage…
-Truthteller.
If he get AIDS, he will make a lot of other Thai girls sick, you know? You should be careful with what you wish to others, because – hos is it in that Accept song? You may have it, and then its too late, beware of the twists of faith!
Hey Chris,
Whilst I will admit that most here seem to have misinterpreted, or totally missed the point, I will add that you missed one other type of Thai girl.
You mention the money girls and the curious girls. What about the girls that are just sick of being played? You may have overlooked this type of girl because these ones most likely wouldn’t want a bar of you?
Hey Brett, the majority of Thai girls who are looking for farang men probably fit into that group, though 99% of the girls I meet have never been with a farang before they don’t seem to realise that they’re being played. But even a girl sick of being played still falls into the curious category because for the majority of Thai women they’ve never been with a farang before so therefore are still curious. They’ve been played by Thai men NOT farang. And even if a girl has been played by farang before they still fit in the curious category because they want to know what it’s like to have a real relationship with a farang man and still have to keep trying before they meet the right one. Me, the past year i’ve only met a few girls whom I wasn’t the first farang guy they’ve been with.
I might add too Brett that for the most part the girls I meet have no problem with one night stands nor the fact that I have multiple girlfriends, their just curious and want to have some fun. They don’t work in bars and go to school full time and don’t mind if i’m playing a game because that’s what they are looking for anyway.
3 girls
Working girl
Free Lancer
Opportunist
However, I feel we all fit into one of these catagories
After only 3 years in Thailand, I’m still working on – NOT treating them like western girls. (I wish I had read this article 3 years ago!) Trouble I see is: by the time they figure out that they’re being “gamed” by their Thai-guy, they already have 3 or 4 kids and are stuck! Sure they’re “curious,” –but they wouldn’t be caught-dead actually looking at- or talking to – a
(*&^%*&^@#$) farang!
Great topic and as usual, your observations and insights are “Right-On!” Keep up the good work Chris! 🙂
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ckW9ol1c9Ec Check it out !!!!
Maybe its gonna help you to see things better or the other word is…To have a biger brain.
And you must remember you are living in Thailand(got a roof over your head) eat Thai food so Do Not Bark about our country because if you think we are not good then you should get your ass and move back to your country.
A man like you not deserve to stay in Thailand !!!
Firstly you should have written this in Thai because your english is hard to understand. I’m not sure I understand your point. I didn’t say Thai people were no good at all. That’s not what the article is about and in fact 99% of the comments here are from people like you whos English isn’t so good. I love Thailand! And right now wouldn’t live anywhere else.
Always the $$$$$$. And food they talk about they couldn’t give a. Flying f&$@k about farang !
Great advice BB, the tired old ‘go home’, logical fallacy response. Preferred retort of the lazy minded.
Funnily enough, that’s exactly what I’VE decided to do after 2 years of savoring Thailand’s sisterhood and daughters, maybe even YOUR daughter if she’s in Pattaya right now. Mmm, yummy!
Having had enough of the constant lies and deception, greng jai and dual pricing etc, it’s time for me to give my money to girl filled countries that treat me with some respect…like Brazil and Costa Rica, Panama and maybe even Laos if we can be bothered to sit on the plane that long. Even if they don’t, the A380 stands ready to fly me elsewhere at my whim. This is the life you will never know as a Thai.
While I respect the hardship and sacrifice that is a daily part of most Thai’s existence, I cannot respect the obstinance, actual resentment of the economic choices I have, and outright rudeness I encounter in Thailand; not to mention the disgusting xenophobia which has no place in modern society.
Thank you for your well considered advice but I already booked the ticket. It’s my first A380 and I’m really looking forward to it; check out the Youtube video of A380’s First Class Section…with all the ca$h I saved in cheap-as-chips-ville Thailand these last 2 years, and $20 daughter encounters, I deserve the respectful treatment I will receive in First Class which the Thais on the ground here were too (fill in the word) to behove me.
Thanks for the memories! Austalavista, baby!!
-Truthteller.
Truthteller dude, you really owned that guy!!!!! Do some more!
Hi Chris,
Really like your website – kind of funny how many responses you receive from thai women…and how they overlook the fact that young (or older) thai women like sex, and want to try it with a farang. What is the big deal about that, and how does it offend an entire culture?
Anyway, if a thai girl does not ask for money and tells me she just wants me as her gik without any attachments, what can I do? Haha…I just live with the pain…
Yeah most of them are reading it wrong so that’s the problem though I think they are more pissed they i’m saying Thai girls give it up for free more often than they ask for money. It’s a tough life in Thailand i tell ya 🙂
I feel happy for you that you finally find the right place for your life”thailand” I would like to tell you that I am also thai lady who is not really appriciate in your article but what can I do?? because this place is freedom for you to show your opinion. You got many responses from thai ladies because they feel hurt from your article even it was truth. You said you never said thai girls need money for sex in the other way you get it for free ?? thank you that is very good compliment. I cannot say anything more because each one have different level of moral.
You’re right – their pissed to hear that some Thai girls are “giving-it-up” for free! Anywho, my “problem” is,
since I’m 58, girls in the lower 20’s won’t give me the time of day. (Not surprising, they won’t in my home country either!)
But, here, I get them in their 30’s, 40’s and 50’s that have been
“culturally-conditioned” their whole lives to NEED to be “exclusive” and either married or planning to be married! I am just a happy, retired-guy and I have NO desire to marry anyone! How do I get them to “let-go” of the “Prince Charming to the Rescue” fairy-tale?????
You are right, i’m in my thirties to girls in their teens and early 20’s are more appealed to me, though I would think once i’m almost sixty getting girls in their 30’s isn’t so bad!!! Problem is girls in their 30’s are looking for marriage pretty much the case in most cultures, I think your question deserves an entire article and I will devote myself to writing it tommorrow. As I know plenty of women in there 30’s and 40’s here that are far from interested in getting married. I know exactly how to spot them and where to find them too so keep an eye out for that article k. BTW hope your not near the flood waters down there mate.
can’t reply – keeps saying “timed-out!”….
I have been living in Thailand for 6 months, what I can say from my experience is that if you want to spend money you can, but if it becomes a problem then just walk away from the relationship. I would like to add I have a Thai girlfriend with a farang son and I am supporting her where I can…Yes, at times I feel like I am being fleeced , but hey I am happier than being bored in England. Lastly, I went with a couple of prostitutes and that was a first…Let me tell you never again…I got myself tested and the all clear…..So, there are 2 types of farang…Tourist sex farang and culture, country loving farang who meets girl and shows her, and only her, a good time.
Peace.
I need to add that…I knew nothing about Thailand before I came here…What I do know is that going with girls for money isnt good for self esteem. On the other hand, I understand that wages arent good here and girls need to feed thier families. I am not saying go with prostitutes. Just find a girl that makes you happy and thats it….Forget about all the bullshit and pick up tricks…It’s easier to get girls here…hahaha….I been here for 6months and only been with 3 girls….A lot more than I had in England I suppose 😛
I think your missing the third type of farang which is where i guess I fit in, I’m not a sex tourist (I don’t want to pay for it), nor am I ready to settle down. I think I’m just a normal single guy pretty much doing the same shit I’d do in any country really. You brought your son over here hey mate, that’s cool, I hope it works out man.
hey thai-try,
have to disagree – there are many ‘types’ of farang — just like anywhere in the world – within a normal week i might go with a girl where i agree to pay upfront, or an accountant from bkk who is happy with some unattached sex, or a one time adventure off the internet – the only boundaries are in your mind…i checked mine at the airport haha
well said
In defence of my comment, I think that this is all about getting girls into bed…Hmm, at first I was all for that until I realised I just wanted a girl around my own age, with whom I could have a real relationship without all the accusations and jealousy from my previous girlfriend in the UK. I guess I found the right person because she is easy to talk too e.t.c e.t.c… and very different from English born ladies…. However, when it comes to money that is a different matter ….quite a sore subject… I am sure there are all types of people out there… The point is is there anyone left in this world that is good?…. Chris, I wanted to correct you… her son is from a farang… he is an Aussie who gave her a baby and is still in ozz… He must be a tourist sex old guy? (I wont ever be one of those sad old guys)
Anyway, im leaving this place soon to get back to reality…I only came here to teach voluntary…and ended up nrly staying a year….
Cant wait to get back to stressed out England.
Bye
If you would like to have sex with Thai girls, please do your business with prostitutes. That calls a fair trade. Manipulating a young Thai girl is call ‘scam’. Your and my cultures are different. Twenty year old Thai girls are not as mature as women at the same age in Western counties. That’s why they got manipulated easier. Should a gentleman take advantage of kids? In your country, having sex might mean getting more experience. But in my country, having sex before married is still unaccepted. Thai society believes that virginity has a high value. Women who lose it will be treated like second class citizens by others and by themselves. If they can choose, most Thai men would like to be the first one of their wives. I know it is not fare but that’s the way our country is. That might take times for thing to change. Anyway, this belief can drive the women to hell such as turning to get around with many men, being prostitutes or in the worst case committed suicide. Are you happy with that? So, please, be straightforward with girls. Your game is so brutal. Tell them you want a free sex with no commitment. If they are O.K, that’s good for both of you. Otherwise, please let them go. Give them a chance to grow.
Firstly I want to thank you for your comment and yet the only thing I can agree with you is that Thai girls mature slower than western woman. What you said about girls who have had sex and unmarried being treated like second class citizens is so bogus I can only assume that you must be over the age of 40 where that might have been true when you were younger however it’s no longer true. I’ve never heard or seen a woman being treated as a second class citizen because she’s had sex before. Sex before marriage in Thailand is as common as it is in the west, FACT thailand has the highest rate of teen pregnancy in all of asia in fact it’s twice as high as Australia according to wikipedia. From personal experience only 1 in 200 young girls have i met are actually a virgin and saving themselves for marriage about the same as when I chanced girls in Australia and the US. You probably don’t know this because your not out there talking to young girls like I am.
I am less than 30 year old from a countryside. So, for sure I am one of the majorities of Thai women. That is O.K if you do not believe me. I understand you come to have sex with Thai girls as many as you can. So, I do not think you would mind to do a research by asking Thai women around the country if they are dare to go to that kind of risky place like Pattaya or a bar alone. Whoever goes there means they know what might happen to them. They might be willing to take that risk for some reasons. I respect your and their decisions. I have best wishes for whoever would like to get out from that situation. I also wish that the innocent Thai girls will not be lured by innocent foreigners who got an idea that all Thai girls are easy. My concern is after reading your article about how to dump a good Thai girlfriend. Even they are not virgin they are still human beings just like you and me and would like to be loved by someone. From what you write you know that dumping them can drive them crazy and risky their lives. You said you can find a girl easily for free. I wish you will respect to your words by doing it without tricking anybody.
I understand the way you judge Thai women. I have been in US for several years. I have heard whatever likes this many times. About the mailing bride from outside US or the illegal foreigner guys who married to Americans only to get citizenship. Some people judge that those foreigners only need money and those American whom they are married to are the looser who could not get any American men or women. One of my US friends went to Pattaya alone few years back. What people talked about him was he might be a looser, a gay or a sex offender. So, what’s the problem? Being a looser is O.K if you are a good person. Being gay is O.K as well. it is natural. But not the sex offender! Racism may be human mechanic to preserve own nation. The time you judge Thai women you also be judged by the others as well.
Anyway, thank you for having this blog. Many innocent Thai girls who have never gone out of the country got the wrong idea from the Thai mass media that they are the best women in the foreigner’s point of view. That’s why many farang come to find a Thai wives. Your article will open their eyes. Make them be aware about their behave, and be more careful. Have a nice day Chris!
Chis, among Thai women they are 2nd class citizens, and that happens to be what they care about. They tend to think farangs are perverts, and who can blame them?
Are Thai girls really all about Money?
I can not answer yes or no.It is both yes and no. Nobody do not want to for money it. But it depends on each person’s to make a living. But mostly the Farang men meet Thai women are hungry the money. Because they want to have sex and have money to lure. Anyone think money can buy everything. And it’s true now. but Thai women is that good, there are very few and not easy to find.Same It is not easy to see that Farang men do not just want sex.
**I am not good at English **I hope you have nice everyday
To Thai lady…
I think you are right Thai ladies are certainly different to anyone of the opposite sex that I have ever met… However, to say that all farang want sex is a bit silly because I am sure that ALL men want sex….We were created to have a lower sex threshold than women…It is a fact..I aint defending no 1… I am just saying those guys that want sex are probably sad guys and have there own conscience to sort out…..Furthermore, I recently visited Pattaya and went to a bar with my girlfriend…I met a really nice lady of 42 (she said she had a son) she was obviously a prostitute. She was telling my girlfriend that old guys want young girls and there is no market for people of her age…It really is bad…. I think if the Thai authorities gave these women money for their children they would be at home like women in the UK. On the other hand, prostitution is supposed to be illegal in Thailand? I overheard that the police regulary have sex with prostitutes for free (corruption).
Lastly, to all those sex tourists out there think twice before spreading disease and remember that these women are just human beings at the end of the day and should be taken care of. Ask yourself do you want a women you can take care of or not…Isnt that a mans primal instinct to hunt for food?…
I decided on my quest I wouldnt pay for sex ever again …but i certainly would support a lady with a good heart!!
Peace.
Phoney love is a cheap thrill.
From karma, if you come to Thailand to f***, you f*** yourself and Thailand. If you come to Thailand to love, then you love yourself and Thailand.
Cute 40 yo ex-hookers would make a nice wife for a 50 yo farang. Cool it with the smokes, and keep your head up everyone. Thailand is a beautiful place. Sex is beautiful when love is real.
To Thai-try
I do not mean that Farang everybody who just want sex. I was just an example. It’s like sex and the exchange money . Thank you for feedback.
What a gross! You manipulate girls and benefit out of them… You’ll get what you’ve done. It’s karma. Bad things will definately return to your daughter!
F…
Well I don’t have a daughter, but if I did, surely you don’t think she’d suffer my Karma. That’s kind of twisted. So I manipulate girls and benefit out of them. That’s right. Thanks for playing 🙂
You are correct, she would not suffer your bad karma, you would through her. Karma is a sweet and beautiful thing, in that it negates the need or desire to seek revenge.
now that’s something I can agree with.
I think she doesn´t understand Karma. The lord Buddha´s karma was greater than the sum of his parents, essentially meaning that your daughter (when/if) you have one can have greater Karma that you (Chris) and your (Thai?) wife or GF.
stupid
There are some Thai girls are trading in Wall Street to support her family. Have you ever found a Thai girl like that? I guess never, because we live in different societly with you. You just found girls who suck you dry because of you live in the society with them.
ไอ้ฝรั่งขี้นก
Hmmm i doubt 99.99999999% actually knows anyone who works on wall street let alone a thai person who does so I really don’t understand your point. Then you call me a cheap tightass ไอ้ฝรั่งขี้นก. What’s with Thai people saying that to me? I don’t get it. You’d rather me pay for sex and treat you all like prostitutes.
I think that’s a big 10-40 there Cris. The ones who charge don’t like you telling guys how to get it for free! lol! You are cuttin in on their turf! 😉
The reason don’t get it is because he actually called you a “lowlife/undesired foreigner” not a “cheap ass foreigner”. You seem to have the meaning of the similar sounding words ขี้งก and ขี้นก mixed up. I hope your Thai swearing book is more accurate than this 🙂 Not meaning to have a jab at you, just saying.
I should probably clarify this further because it is actually confusing. If don’t have money to start with ie. “White trash/trailer trash/poor white” (ขี้นก) – you cant really be a “stingy/tight ass” (ขี้งก) as well. Nothing stopping you from calling poor people stingy I guess, but its expected that poor people don’t give away money generously. You would usually reserve “stingy” for people that do have some excess money to give, and call people one or the other. Just as the word “trailer trash” in English technically just means they are poor and live in a trailer, it also implies they are of lowlife character.
I understand bro, i read it wrong because the article was talking about money and Thai girls, honest mistake
Thank you for not being an ignorant westerner that thinks Thailand only has prostitutes and drugs.
For Thai fellows: chill the f*ck down.. the author’s not insulting Thai girls
Arksorn who was you aiming your comment/ view at?…
I’m just a Thai girl, and don’t know much about western man
And i born in Thai i still not expertly about Thai girls, but !!!!!
Where you born, what about you culture , how long you visit Thailand, how much city you come visit in here, Why you write and shared that. Every time who said Thai girls want money , You know ? i very angry and hate , Why not used “Some ”
You said in some topic “you have have met over 300 thai girls” And i want say to you “you very very unlucky man in the world”
And i want tell you some thing
“one million Thai girls each other not same
one million dad one million mom … how each other the same ”
Sorry… I not good english
Precious, isn’t it? I will pony up for the bikini to make this one “Thai girl of the week”! 🙂
Such passion! Such politeness! I’ll bet she is hot!
Thai birds love poor blokes. If it were a matter of money, I would have had a Thai gf a long time ago.
Chris is right. Modern young Thai girls are hotter than fire !
They are CRAZY for farangs, if you are young, good looking, white skin and blue eyes, almost every girl will want to rape you !
You can go to every place, disco where there are university girls and in 5 minutes you will be surrounded by dozens girls begging you to take them to bed. I think the problem is the heat and the chilly: they make Thai girls sooo hot….
“…IF you are YOUNG, GOOD-LOOKING….” 🙁
Chris ur a man with his act together!!! Congrats for matering the system there. I am interested in a monthly budget to live there?
Do you provide tours?
Are there english teaching positions there? What are the requirements to enter the country and put up a stay there?
Best Regards
Josef
Depending on your age you really need at least 70,000 a month. I don’t teach english, do tours, i just study Thai.
I would say 90,000 is a better number…. Unless you live in Issan.
“mastering”
Agree with most of what you say. I was amazed how many lays I got from chicks that were just curious to try!! At one point I had 6 on the go all between 24 and 35 years old, I did not lie to any of them just told them I had other gigs and that is all we were ever going to be Also I never had to fork out a penny rathe the opposite, some times I got nice presents. I dated the same 1/2 dozzen girsl for a couple of months and they would compete for a date and get pissed at me if their turn took too long to come. BTW I an nothign special on looks or age! Finally I got to the point where I was totally jaded and it started feeling like a job to keep them all satisfied… Finally I had to leave for a few months break!
There are a lot of nice girls there and for those that think they were all scrubbers I can tell you, One was a doctor, one worked in a financial institution, one had its onw restaurant, one was a Office clerk and so on… and I did check on their jobs so I know for a fact they were not BS me.
When I came back to Thailand I had 6 close friends with which I still keep in touch now (no sex any more)
Thais have a different view on sex than most westerners have and there appear to be more women than men 1:14 in BKK I was told, so they tend to be more predatory than in other parts of the world were numbers are different.
I find nothing wrong with this, I don’t disrespect Thais or look down on them in any way… its just a different set of rules out here as is smiling to people and generally trying to be kind and helpful… I wish the countries I come from were the same some times!
Hi Chris, I am really annoyed by comments of people who did not read the article at all but put a bad comment on you. Come on people no matter if Chris writes about 2 or more categories, the point is that he say that generaly Thai girls are VERY GOOD and that THEY ARE NOT LOOKING FOR MONEY. This is the only point he wrote about. I recommend to all who posted bad comment to read the article again or even more untill they understand what Chris really wrote. It is understandable that bad comments from Thai girls or Thai women here are because they missunderstood the article or not translated it correctly, that is fine. But I really wonder that even those people who’s englishe is native language don’t understand english. I am a Czech guy, english is NOT my native language but I understood Chris point from the very beggining. So again people, wake up and read the article….Chris writes that normal Thai girls are not looking only for money and that they are just a normal girls – good girls. And also he writes that Whoever think that Thai girls are only looking for money, then such person don’t know anything about Thailand and Thai girls because Thai girls are NOT bad and are NOT looking for money. It is so much obvious from the article that it can not be more……And that is the point…..all other things Chris wrote are just his experience which I believe happened and he enjoyed it because this was exactly what he was looking for…that’s it, nothing less but nothing more. And whoever want to write bad things about me, please get know me and my life first and then write….I absolutely love Thailand, I love Thai people, I love Thai culture, I love Thai language, I love Thai religion and I have Thai family and wife and I hope I can live in Thailand forever….I always lived in Thailand with the most respect to Thai people and everytime I consider myself to be very lucky that Thai people let me live in their amazing country and share their great culture…..All the best to everybody, Pavel
thanks mate appreciate the comment.
Hmmm. I liked the article I really did, but notwithstanding your thoughts regarding Thai girls and Thai life, I’m afraid that it happens in every country. In Australia, the government gave payouts to those having babies, so what did this achieve? An influx of young girls popping out babies simply for money. In Australia we legalize brothels simply to accommodate the filth of our society… Men. I’m a guy and I admit I’ve done some bad things especially when it comes to women. My first thoughts of Thai girls were less than desirable but after learning to meet so many, I’ve realised that most have better morals, beliefs and more self respect that our Australian girls. The common denominator in all this is that every society is made up of lower class, middle class and upper class, but one common goal and that’s to survive. I’ve met copious amounts of girls and have lived in numerous countries mostly of which are in SE Asia, I’ve dated many Asian girls, some not so nice and some remarkable but at the end of the day, I can understand how you can throw round such comments but you should not throw comments around before understanding the very thing that causes such tarnish to Thai girls, same as that with Filipino women. These people live in 3rd world countries. You may not be a Tom cruise but I am 🙂 and let me tell you, I’ve had my threesomes and have many dirty stories with both Asian girls, American, German, English girls etc etc… That’s what the works youth is about! But as I’ve aged I’ve realised that those days are behind me thanks to my beautiful Thai wife who resides with me in Australia and has done so for the past 6 years ;). Best of luck friend but be nice to those ladies because you attract what you are!
Ldawg said: “In Australia we legalize brothels simply to accommodate the filth of our society… Men”
If it wasn’t for Men, there WOULD be no society. There are reputable theses which support this assertion. It would all revert to Matriarchal ‘societies’ with rogue males wandering around taking whatever sexual opportunity is available and causing havoc…modern Matriarchal society ring a bell there? Men built civilization, Men go to war to protect their womenfolk, Men do all the hard dirty work that women will not/cannot do, Men invented 99% of everything. And Men…until women recently seized power through Feminism, raised strong close knit families…for centuries. Now that women are “in power”, there ARE no families.
Decimated in the west…the problem spreading like a disease across the world. If it wasn’t for Men, women would still be hanging up curtains in caves. Sex is the primal instinct which motivated Men to build the world as it is today, take away all the things that these so called “filth of society”as you call them…Men…have built/invented, and you’d be sitting on the dirty ground in the rain wondering what happened to your comfortable life.
I always chuckle a little bit when I get to the part where self righteous posters inevitably assert their authority to comment on Thai matters/Thai ladies as being “I married a nice Thai lady”, or similar appeal to authority. Nobody’s saying there isn’t an exception to the rule (good luck to you having found it), but that’s like saying SURE, I know there’s white tigers…not ALL tigers are orange with black stripes. And that is true. But the exception does not disprove the rule. What people seek here are answers which help them with what they are LIKELY to encounter in Thailand, dealing with/seeking out this wonderful ‘exception’ of a Thai lady who “isn’t like that”.
Deriding Men for wanting sex is a Feminist mantra…as is saying Men are the ‘filth of society’. Sex is the primal instinct which perpetuates our species. It’s stronger in Men for a biological reason…survival of the species. Legalizing brothels in Australia is a sensible response to the restriction of supply that Feminism has imposed upon what was once a naturally functioning society before Feminizm took hold. But worse are the Manginas who allow it. Men who say things like…”In Australia we legalize brothels simply to accommodate the filth of our society… Men”.
Have a great day thinking about these new concepts. Try not to be part of the problem…be part of the solution.
-Truthteller.
Amen!
The view of the white male or Farang in Thailand is that by and large they are wealthy The average Thai’s wage is ฿ 6000 a month ฿ 70,000 a month is almost 12 times the national wage
you can travel around many city’s in Thailand and view the fine homes Farang have bought or built there for their Thai wife or girl Friend, many Thai girls would like a rich Farang boyfriend for the prestige and security it brings to her and the family weather you consider your self handsome or other wise doesn’t matter what is important that their lives and if they have them their family’s lives will be improved with you on board which in long term relationships nearly always means having a home built which unfortunately means they are not that interested in poor white men handsome or not Thais are generally conservative by nature happy they don’t deal well with worry if you are rich in Thailand you won’t have any worry’s and if you go to beer-bars 100% of the time they are there to earn money because they have a family to take care and worry about If Thai girls had money like their western counterparts Beer bars probably wouldn’t have any staff They would choose more from heart and not head same as the girls in the west which makes the 2 and 3 girl scenario very unlikely unless you paid for it regarding Girls the age 16 to 22 they like everyone else learn by their mistakes but unless they are working the girls in the west are more promiscuous although times are changing I have generalize because there are always exceptions
Hi Chris,
Well written and informative article. I think your experience meeting Thai girls was different to other peoples expats experiences, judging from some of the messages left.
I’ve lived in Japan and came across similar types but over there can fit into several types. For some it’s about getting free drinks at bars which can get very expensive then they go home to their waiting boyfriends or husbands.
But most fall into the curious type.
Loved the article… But how many Hi So Thai’s do you associate with?
I am not HiSo but my girlfriend is (we are a bit of an odd couple)… Her parents earn at least triple to mine and mine are in Australia earning fairly high wages.
I struggle to see any of her friends would fit either… Most are highly traditional with the odd slurry that will go home with a random Thai or very rarely, a farang.
I have some really hiso family friends ones who own like whole soi’s in Ekamai! I find them kinda boring honestly.
From age 16 to 22 all youngsters are not matured or found their identity, so you are not dealing with a real complex true Thai woman, but these gals will carry your mental baggage and become stronger and wiser so you need a turnover of blank minded ones to manipulate,king midas in reverse you are.
Hummm, I am older and live in Thailand, and never tried younger women. I did have a gentlemen tell me once he picked up girls at the university. He said very easy. I never tried it but he swore by it. You got to be careful here. And I believe in the ” don’t spend anymore than you can comfortably loose “. Because it is a total lose here in Thailand for a farang. If you spend more that you can afford and go back home and live a good life then you are stupid in my opinion in Thailand.
I cannot believe all these negative comments… this guy is not talking about all the thai girls and he claims his experience just with younger girls and expecially the uni girls, so the topic is about that. If you are another age or if you always go to the bars or if you don ‘t know what happens in thailand with the new generations, so why judge? I believe him and I think that what he says is true, the younger ones from the school look very curious, not only the thai ones, everywhere is like that… but this happens expecially in thailand where we have a lot of social freedom: the real thing is that in thailand everyone can do what they want, no rules, no muslim shit… and the young girls who still have a free mind when they are not discouraged from a strict education they obviously want to try new things and experience life. I always find the thai uni girls attractive and I am trying to know them more… and i want to ask you, chris, if you can help me, we can talk in private: my problem is not the language as I can speak a little thai, I am 37, my prblem is that i am still a shy guy, that I don’t drink alchool so I miss all the nightlife and I still cannot find my way with them as I have grown up a deeper mind.
Let me know chris, I am waiting for your answer.
I’ve seen this problem with a lot of guys, it comes down to self confidence. What you need to do is take a carefree attitude like you don’t care if you have them or not this goes a long way.
yes, you are right. But I am very confident when it’s about me and my personal choices… I am never sure with girls because I always wonder if she is the right one for me, so I lose many many chances. Of course, I need to be easy and carefree with them; actually I am in Udon and it looks a good place where to find one, if only I was more open I could know lots of them, even thai guys could help me much with my search… but I am not a social person.
As the great golfer Lee Trevino said: “You can’t win if you don’t play”. As long as you don’t go for one of these Issan beauty queens that are used to taking people’s money, you will find most Thai women will be very good to you. One with a normal job is good, I recall a very nice one at the new Tesco in CM who was very friendly, but I was already married. English ability is also good, it shows she is smart. Go for it, you won’t find friendlier women than Thai girls.
Especially the girls in Chiang mai!
I suggest spending time at Wats and meditating. You can stay for free for days at a time, and there definitely no drinking. Only fan rooms though, so go when its cool. 🙂
I heard that most Thai women are liars and are not capable of telling the truth. Plus they do not wash themselves properly – they are dirty. Is that true?
Oh wow! What a hot topic. xD
I wanted to read all comments but finally just skip it after ten.
Well my English not good but let me comment plz ( count me in count me in!)
1. I’m not fit with these two type. anyway I’m not in the range 16-22. ( I’m older, 26y/o Thai as born )
2. For me, I don’t feel you say bad thing regarding ” Thai women”
You didnt blame or try to look us down.
3. But I only see ” you such a game player” if someone in this loop have to be a bad person, I would consider it’s you! Not those young money girl or young curious girl xD ( cuz they anyway chased by you! Poor them)
4. 16-22 of corse young. Some of them might be like whatever you noticed but some not. Maybe you lucky only found the two dominant group. ( me when I was younger didn’t fit with these two type anyway)
Although since they are so young, sure they easy to fooled around you know that right? So,, it dosen’t matter they are money girl or curious girl but Have you ever shame at yourself that you play game/ fool them a lot? Who knows they might get tears behind your back. Are you really happy to win girls by playing around?
Oops! I tought I just comment , sound like I blaming you now haha.
For summary, I see people comment like you talk about Thai girl in bad way. But for ^^me I think didn’t. You just show how you are( game player, sex hunter ) and tried to give another guys a tip how to hunt girl with most benefits.( well only my opinion, I quite disgust with such people like this)
Anyway it’s your life. As long as you happy and not hurt those young thai girls. Then it’s not what I should concern.
Just hope in future, after you get bored with playing game, you will still pround what you have did. ;P
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Amazing Thailand! And there is the other angle to Chis’ life: aside from his “ways” with thai ladies, he is also very imformative to new farang (good karma that) and also to interested thai lady!
been in Bangkok 3 years now. Im 26 year old. Totally agree with you Chris. In the age range you are talking about you get 2 kinds of girls. The gold diggers and the curious ones. In the end if your a good looking young guy easy to shag both types of girls in this bracket because as you know Thai people are stupid. Also out of all the different countries I’ve been in the world they are the easiest sluts i’ve ever met also.
It’s all about where you go,if you go somewhere like pubs or bars,you’d definitely find that type of girl you wrote about but if you go somewhere nice,you’ll find a working girl and ofcourse,then don’t care how much money you have ..so..it’s all up to you if you’re looking for good girls then go to nice place like Siam square or wherever . But I’m not saying that girls in pubs or bars are bad,sometimes they love you for who you are,nOt because of your money but they just can’t effort as much money as the working girls..
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Everything you tell is so true. Good job Chris!
Let me comment on this. Thai girls, in particular, are not after money. ALL Thai people are after money.
You know, my (Thai) wife married me knowing I’m not rich. Sometimes she chats with other Thai people – you know, strangers asking inappropriate questions – and many are asking about me “is he rich?”, “does he have money?”.
For the name of God, for a Buddhist country, these people are just to obsessed by money and all the earthly things that money could buy… this is my opinion.
Thanks for the article and funny to see the misunderstanding!! I live here for six months now and six more to come… What would your advice be on laying the one looking for sex only and that is all…no cash and relationships issue involved… It is normal in my county… we all want to “lay” and there are similar minds in the country also… it is not down looking or “bad” thing to do at all. so.. would on street pick-ups be safe? Online dating? I am starving for a good company, good conversation and good sex …
You have been in Thailand for six months and are starving for good sex? That is hard to imagine, and not pretty, like old ugly and broke. I hope not for your sake. If you use a rubber and don’t get too drunk, most Thai women are safe. Stash your cash around strangers, like in a safe or a bank.
Why are thai guys talking shit here. I have met and seen good looking thai guys pick-up stupid white chic just as easy as we do with thai girls so I call it an even trade off. My opinion, plus sum of these stupid white chics (farang) sometime end up sending the thai guys money, imagine that. Its all fare game you ask me. Shit, I had girls give me money before (Philippinas, Chinese, thai etc). and I have giving money to girls before, too. Play the game long enough as I have it will equal out itself in the end. Happy ThanksGiving I am off to get drunk with my beautiful Thai Girlfriend.
In the USA, everyone can say what thet want. Its not so true in Thailand, and I would respectfully ask you to show some class. Us farang are all visitors in Thailand, and behavior of each of us reflects on all of us.
Pissing off Thai men is a bad idea, some of them are cops, you know?
Thai girls are all about money I am 28 yrs of age been to thailand over 24 times , every girl I meet bar girl or just normal girl they all talk about how they need money to support their children or family same bullshit eveytime , fuck them pay them and kick them out that’s what most of them deserve and never ever marry one they will spend every dollar you have then when you go back home they will fuck another farang.
Wow…. Haven’t finished reading this article , but basically writer wanted white men to see how to get thai girls to have sex with them without spending money.
To the writer ( I don’t want to even type your name because you are one of the disgusting men in the world that all in your head is SEX), I think you expressed how cheap and uneducated you are .
There are some groups of thai girls who be like you mentioned . However , there are many good thai girls out there, who adores love and not thinking about only money.
The bottom line of your article is that you want to show how great you are to get thai girls to bed. Well, you are an asshole. I think you should know this.
Maybe you should read the article first before commenting.
‘Your’ describes ownership and ‘you’re’ is a contraction of two different words that we use when referring to another’s state of being. I liked your article but this drives me nuts.
Well I have to admit that I enjoyed the “in-the-streets” way in which you wrote this article. I Don’t think this is disrespectful of Thai women. These types of women exists in all countries and especially in the Westernized ones. And we men must take some amount of responsibility for this. Therefore, if a man loves women he must accept this and adapt to the times or face extinction.
,im from Krabi ,,my family have palm farm in krabi cover surathani,i have italian boyfriends..and i never ever ask money from him,coz i get paid from my family work,,Just so you know everybody need money also you,,why you escap to thailand,,coz everything in your country too expensive ,,
i feel good to read about your page ,never feel hurt in my mind coz im not a girl who want just money..
have a good day
rich Ann
I have a Thai girlfriend who isn’t about money with me but she is looking for it. She has a good heat and you have to take care. I was in Thailand for 1 1/2 years and I met only one good girl. I don’t care about classification. The writer is creepy….
Unfortunate guy..! I’m a northeast girl under 25 years old. After I graduated master degree in Thailand I chosen to live with my Italian bf in Italy. I am a waiter in Italian restaurant.. You know! I leave my comfortable life, I leave my luxury car,I leave family’s business in Thailand and everyone blamed me.. But chosen to started new life,language,social in Italy and I’m so proud because We are making our future together by our hands btw it depend on how lucky you are,your destiny,your decide when you choose a girl.
You are a FOOOL ?Thais are all about Prostitution and stealing
just another sexual predator in thailand
I think the problem here is the article headline.. People arent reading the article, or they dont have good enough english to understand it.. He is NOT saying that Thai girls only want money.. He is actually saying that is not true.. He also said some Thai girls dont like farang men.. So most of you got it wrong.. He in no way said that Thai women are bad…
We can assume he is ONLY speaking about girls who want to have sex with Farangs.. He is NOT speaking about all Thai women. His experience is only with the ones who meet him for sex. Im sure many other girls didnt want that.. But if no girls wanted that, then he would be so successful, would he?
He does break Thai girls age 16 – 22 into two broad categories (curious about farangs, hoping for gifts from farangs).. That is because of the perception Thai girls have about farangs.. Many assume we are rich.. And just like all girls in the entire world, when they meet a rich guy, they hope he will be generous.. That’s normal. The curios girls dont even want gifts.. So stop beating this guy up, because you didnt read the article, or misunderstood it.
This is an old one but a funny one.
What sticks out to me the most is that the author passed judgement on an Australian guy even going as far as calling him a typical Australian.
Well with a brief read of some of the responses by Thai people I would be inclined to say typical yank. Foot in mouth syndrome.
Seems it might be a good idea to sit down with this old Aussie guy as this article seems to be wrong on a few points.
interesting, you know i’m Australian right?
As probably a “typical yank” all I can say is: lolol! Maybe instead of these “looks like cooties” avatars we should have our nationality flag like on Bangkok Post! lol!
I’ll leave with a joke: What are PeeWee Herman’s favorite baseball teams? A: The Yankees and the Expos!
Its an old one from when he got caught pant’s down in a XXX theater. 🙂 Have a good day, mates.
been to thailand many times…
have to say you are a master…
if what you said is not true there would not be so many
comments… and bitter ones at that.. the truth hurts..
sure there may be more than 2 types.. but your
summary is sufficient for thai girls interested
in FOREIGNERS from the get go…
i thought i knew the game pretty well.. but you sir
are on a higher playing field.. very nice insights
Dude, you did not categorize Thai girls. You categorized sluts in Thailand. I hope you’re careful as hell who their parents are. Because if you step on the wrong foot, you might just find yourself in the bottom of Chaopraya River.
Man, think of the media that will hunt you down if someone happen to translate your posts into Thai and submit it to news channel.
They won’t care that it’s just your opinion in your own blog. It’s nothing illegal but since when does that matter, right?
I am so sad for you right now.
It’s only slander if I make accusations against a particular person. I appreciate your concern though.
Na what he describe is unexperianced teenage girls dont know better that his foolish tricks are fake, fact is real mens can handle real girls not have to use teenage girls, they suck in bed cause of a lack of experiance and can give you shit if you have the balls for get REAL WOMAN, i not like this losers in my country neither i do like them here in thailand, fact is what he get is a) too young and b) too poor so – emedeatly if there is a woman euqals him he wont make it far since he not has the carm or the skills of get a girl 😉 how pathetic you must be to tell your ex or now gf got a apple, i mean seriously haha 🙂 what he describe here is young girls…….not sluts…………..sluts not fall on his cheap trick they know that game well thats why he have to try it with teenagers 🙂 such pathetic
having been in a relationship with two Thai women, here’s my two cents worth. The Thai women I met were in my own country, at a bar socializing just like where you meet any other type of woman. I don’t only go for Thai women, I’m an equal opportunity dater lol. But yes, I can admit that I find Thai women particularly attractive (being of Mediterranean descent I’m partial to long black hair and sultry looks). I can affirm that the Thai women I was with did indeed expect me to pay, but NOT always. We shared most things, but I always paid more because it’s a man’s duty (and I’m OK with that, it’s the same in my parent’s culture). So in the end, Thai women are just like any other woman on this Earth. They expect love, affection, and security. If you can’t provide these things then stay celibate or hire prostitutes, because unfortunately human love and relationships fall under the phenomenon called natural selection. But here is the pint. If you are prepared to go to another country to find a woman then be prepared to be possibly seen, and judged, as a western sex tourist or a cash cow. I’m sorry it’s the truth. Which is why I’d NEVER go abroad to find a wife. Ever. And the women there can smell your intentions from a mile away, and make their moves accordingly. So please don’t go to Thailand looking for love and complain about the women there, it’s a bit hypocritical. If you step into a boxing ring, would you complain about the other fighter when he knocks you out? Find a woman in your own country, regardless if she’s foreign or not. That way, it will be on your own cultural terms, no pussy footing around or excuses, or sour grapes about wasted travel costs etc.
Only a spiteful woman posing as a man would write: “If you can’t provide these things then stay celibate or hire prostitutes, because unfortunately human love and relationships fall under the phenomenon called natural selection.”
Such condescending prattle!
Fact is, WE are providing natural selection away from women like you with our feet! We are treated like cash cows in the USA, but at least in Thailand we get 3x the cow for 1/3rd the cash! Do the math!
And at least most of the women here believe in karma! Its lip service in the USA!
Sorry Chris, I exposed your website to some curious guys on a major US website, and it looks like the scorned are trying to have a little laugh. Haha!
I respect you, MAX!
Have you ever been to Thailand? if not… WELCOME!!!
Best regards
Bam, Max would “NEVER go abroad to find a wife. Ever. And the women there can smell your intentions from a mile away, and make their moves accordingly.”
And what do you respect about Max, bam besides doing a little siss-boom-bah cheerleading? Her post is the most corn-fed blarneystone I’ve ever read!
It reminds me of an American woman in Phuket who tried to warn me away from Thai women by saying they lead the world in penis severings. Since the cops won’t do anything about domestic violence, I suppose they do. Don’t hit your Thai woman and she won’t cut your dick off. Sounds fair enough to me. Farangs don’t do that anyway, there are too many other nice Thai women to get angry. And “in my parent’s culture” (lol) we don’t do that either, unless you are really dumb and like prison.
I agree with Chris. The post is highly accurate. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. I think Chris and i share the same opinion.
“Get what you like. Or be forced to like what you get”
No Brian dude, I’m a 20-something year old bloke who resides in London, but I’ve had two relationships with Thai women so I got to know the cultural nuances pretty well (never been to Thailand but would love to go cos it looks amazing). They met my parents and everything. Cultural differences can be an issue. If you come from a strong proud culture you might find giving in (to someone elses culture) a problem (especially if you are a male chauvanist too – NOT saying you are or I am either). For some reason all the people I know would definitely go abroad for sex and fun, but they scorn going abroad to find a wife. See it as kind of desperate and last-resort. All I was saying is that the locals in that country might possibly see you in the same way – someone desperate and lonely, who can’t find a wife in his own country. If the women see you like that – how do you think they will treat you? Would you trust their intentions? Isn’t it risky with a high chance of backfiring? So don’t complain and slag of Thai women when you go there and get bitten. Expect everything. If foreign men came here then went back home and said that all British women were money-hungry pigs, wouldn’t I be offended? In the end we broke up because the cultural differences were too much. I wasn’t sure if they were mocking me or it’s ‘their culture, and i have to understand’. I feel they were using it as an excuse to get away with things. Had a fantastic time, and Thai women are DEFINITELY hot and make GOOD wives, but in the end I prefer a girl who has the same cultural background and won’t get unnecessarily offended when we tell each other to **** off in an argument 🙂
Max, have you every heard me complain about Thai women? No you haven’t because I like them very much and am very happily married to one I got into the States last October. I did have one thai gf who was only interested in my money, but she earned it very memorably as far as I’m concerned, I wouldn’t take a penny back.
If you prefer women of your own culture so you can cuss each understandably, I say go for it, Max dude.
Brightness , or the lack of it, is exactly why they are so up themselves. It is a Plague amongst western women. I call them “Mrs Male”…out Guying the Guys.
A very important factor…the Cultural factor.
Brian Sumpter, you don’t judge me if you don’t know me…
“And what do you respect about Max” THAT YOU ASK ME
Because I think he is a fair person and GENTLEMAN but not only him from this blog.
“Thai women are just like any other woman on this Earth. They expect love, affection, and security. If you can’t provide these
things then stay celibate or hire prostitutes.
I’m also a woman and respect the people and I can do what I want except illegal and don’t do stupid things because I don’t want to live with the problem.I’m the person who love and will love only one man and forever no matter what happen to him and always be his side (if he is a good man).Just don’t want to sleep with grandfather because of his money and I ever got offer but I hate it. I’m not animal.The money can not buy my heart. I have my own enough. I don’t want to work until retirement. Then I work hard now.And have my dream to live peace with someone nice if possible but If not I can live alone like now.Before I don’t know much about man like this blog,now I’m so afraid because most of them thinking only about sex not about love but good to kown, that make me thanks CHRIS so much!!!
Phew, you sure got some responses there mate! I don’t think you are deriding thai girls; you’re a player & you tell us how you do it.
From my limited experience of thai girls, I think that many of them have been lied to so often by farangs- the ‘2 week millionaires’ who make all kinds of promises, flash their money around then go home & forget her. And it probably leaves them bitter, hurt & then distrustful of all farangs. It seems that many bargirls leave education at an early age, have no prospect of ever improving their lot & get sucked in to the bright lights & cash. Some guy comes along behaving like I just said & they think they’ve ‘made it’ only to be let down. I have met some lovely bargirls, & some not so good ones; I attempt to evaluate everybody I meet on their own merits. I certainly do not ‘blanket’ all bargirls as just being money grabbing…I won’t use that word.
I think Thai people are lovely, & some girls I met have a ‘sweetness’ about them that western girls just don’t have.
I look at the way many western girls behave at the weekend & by comparison bargirls seem almost ‘saintly’ (lol)
Couldn’t agree more.
Very well stated! 🙂
Bam don’t think I’m a gentleman, lol…you don’t know me. I could just be a player with a sweet mouth. That’s the problem with a lot of guys on here, they suck at making women feel good so when they lose a girl despite spending all their money thet cry and bitch about it. Guys you CAN’T buy a woman’s heart with money. Women are emotional creatures and the law of attraction DOESN’T work logically (i.e. money + house = her heart – NO!)Yes she will be with you for the money, but then if you’re one-dimensional and boring she will be fucking the hot young guys (like me) who know how to make her feel good. Guys are so clueless about this. Maybe it’s in my blood (my heritage is from the south of Europe), but some westerners are better with women than others, although i grew up in the UK and so nowhere near as fun loving as my Spanish and Italian cousins down south! UK and USA guys stop bitching when your money doesnt get you anywhere with women in Thailand, colonial times are over, you cant just go to the trpoics and buy yourself a woman. Jeeez. And anyway the rich Thais would make 99% of ‘comfortable’ westerners in Thailand look like street beggars, you think thai women don’t know this? Stop spending your money and instead develop your charm and sex appeal, go to the gym, lose the belly. How stupid will you feel when you spend all your money and lose your woman to a broke younger stud?!!
P.S. Bam, you were right though, I AM a gentleman. I’ve never complained about a woman or stereotyped a woman based on where she’s from. Women are women everywhere in the world, and trust me, I see a woman’s bad qualities in all cultures, same goes with men. I just accept them as they are and try to look on the bright side of life. God made man and woman to love each other, not fight!
Also last piece of advice. SMART guys have an idea, find a solution, DONT talk about it and then do something about it. LOSERS cry, bitch, moan and never do anything about it.
**The ‘don’t moan about it’ is key….
Just a long hard Lol. Your too funny chris. Everyone elses comments appreciated. I dont think chris is being rude about the thai girls. Just talking about THE GAME which is exactly how it is in all countriess and he gives some good suggestions how to play it in thailand.
Some girls play the game at us, this is a good way to play it back.
Luke 23 Chiang Mai 6 months
Keep playing Luke, look me up when i get back to Chiang Mai.
i’m a thai girl and i’m 26. i was born in late 80’s and grew up in the 90’s.
i admit that your article is right about those 2 types of thai girls, well pretty accurate actually. im not gonna talk about money girls, everybody knows how they are.
girls my age do have different thoughts about dating, both with thai men and westerners. let’s face the truth, im not sure if thai girls my age still save their virginity for marriage. those curious girls are out there. they want to try sleeping with a white dude, once in their life. (telling you from my experience from my girl friends) the point is, i just wanna say Chris, you’ve been here in thailand long enough to learn about ‘the games’. my guy friends from college did that too, and they’re thai and they’re definitely womanizer type.
chris, someday when you find the right girl to fall in love with eventually, she does deserve nice treats like wine and fine restaurants on special occasions, even tho she’s thai.
Well said
There is no way I am going to read through all of this, but anyway.
Chris has some points- however I can also understand how he has sparked up a bit of hate amongst the Thai girls on here.
He is only narrowing in (very narrowing) on a small population of Thai girls ( I won’t call them women) and unfortunately for him he is missing out on a group of Thai women with more life experience and worldly wisdom.
There is not 2 groups of Thai girls- if there was it should be the educated versus non- educated- rather than “money grabbers” vs the “curious”.
I’ve lived in Thailand for over 6 years and been traveling here since 20 years ago.
I have had many many relationships with Thai girls – from 18 years to 25 years.
To be honest I avoided bars and prostitutes when I was younger because I learnt the language, I was decent looking, friendly and made friends. I met nice girls through friends, traveling, hanging out and only once had a not so good experience with a Thai girl.
I respected the thai girls just as I would have respected an Australian or Canadian or whatever. The Thai girls were in mind however much better lovers.
I married a Thai girl- out of pure stupidity at the time, thinking I was in love. Hey the sex was good (for a while) but what is a relationship if it is only one sided.
That girl was a money hoarder- all my salary, savings etc to the point I left her with nothing except my clothes and a car.
Now I am happily engaged to my current Thai partner, who is down to earth, caring – towards her family and my family. She is not a money grabber, we separate our money. She is educated, yet naive a little, but such a lovable being.
Ok- we are in our 30’s but if I had met her when she was 20, I dare say she would have been just a younger version of who she is now.
Chris- to make the assumption there are 2 types of “young” thai girl is like saying there are only 2 types of ice cream. There are so many flavors and mixes.
Otherwise I agree on a lot you have to share.
Live life to the fullest.
Well after 7 years here, and on my 2nd thai wife, …having had dozens of GF’s all professionals ( advanced degree ), … sure have had 100’s of occasions of else.
‘Money’, … even my current wife, who the first 6 months was an angel ( aren’t they always the first few months ), but now its just like the last, … money is about the only time she talks with me.
7 long years, .. I speak thai fluently, and I’m still in good shape, … still good looking for a 50 year old guy, … and still live up country.
Now my question for newbies is “How many houses have you bought?”, my first thai wife cost me a $1M baht sin-sod, …. and $3M for the house. I didn’t leave I ran from the situation after three long years of “HELL”.
Sex, … I came like all of for sex, … having not gotten any from post-menopausal farang women.
It’s all here just like it was obvious all along. I have lived all over thailand. I only hang out with thai’s, I always stay far from farang’s, they’re dangerous.
My current wife stopped the sex suddenly about a month ago, .. first year was excellent, .. ‘promotion over’ as thai women like to say.
Last wife got the house that way sad ‘sex will return if you build house’, well I built house, and then she said “you sleep on 2nd floor, I sleep on 3rd’,…
New wife want’s a house now, … but I didn’t pay sin-sod this time, … and I’m not going to buy anymore houses, I told her that.
GF’s having had a dozen, … one was even a medical doc, … same as always after about 3+ months of great sex, … it stop’s cuz they want something.
It’s all too predictable, …Never really tried to have a whore for a GF here, as its always too nasty about the money, … regarding the school girls that chris likes to promote, I find them to boring, … I focus on 25-35, but prefer under 40,
Most fascinating as I speak fluent thai, is that its the same for thai men, I have only met a few thai men here in all my years that say that their wife loves them, … the reason that there are so many whore houses in thai land is that most thai men aren’t getting any at home. It’s normal here that once the girl get’s what she want’s, the sex ends. That goes for everybody.
There are exceptions, if your in the right places I guess you can beat your wife, …or what not, … but I’m not going to go there.
For a retired farang, I still like thailand, ..its a great place to ride a bike all year, and just have a beer ( 50baht ) with a local on a curb.
My first impression when I saw this topic … was like thai-visa or any other self promotion site is/was ‘thai women and money’, … oh-no,.. the problem is its just boring, and it never ends. It doesn’t matter what you do for thai women, they always want more.
I agree with chris, … I can go to thailovelinks.com, and have dozen’s of girls in any city on any visit, but after 7 years, its always the same. Maybe this is chris’s “GAME”, … sure I can play the game, … meet them, hang for a few days enjoy great sex, … make great promises and never see them again,
But gawd forbid, should you, could you, … decide to stay MORE than 6+ months with the women or live with her, … they will alway’s make you crazy and wish you were alone.
I travel a lot,… seen it all here, go live at wat’s and speak slow, and all thai’s enjoy me, I stayed with my farang wife for 25 years. The problem in Thailand is like I said, … thai men aren’t happy either, … that’s why the majority of thai men love their ‘whiskey’, its because behind all the smiles most of the men are broken hearted.
If you can PLAY the game, … and your not looking for love, … then enjoy Thailand. But if your looking for love, the truth is very ugly.
Farang’s have there game, but so do the thai girls, and their game is get a ‘thing’ as quick as they can, I liken the place to a ‘cargo cult’.
Regarding chris’s assertion about curios girls versus money girl, there is no difference even the curious migrates to money in time.
Sex in THAILAND is seen as a resource the pussy is never free, there is always a cost.
Like the man said, …the cheapest pussy in thailand is pay for play.
Last note for chris, in all my travels my favorite place was ban-phe near rayong, back behind the wharf there are dozen’s of whore houses, and they’re all full of beautiful myanmar girls for 300 baht. Never see a farang there, but they let me pay the thai price.
Like when I came here all the experts advise of such, … after 2 thai wives I have spent probably 5M baht for very little pussy, …that money could have bought soapy’s for life.
The best sex I have ever had in thailand after my time here was from girls in cowboy, takeaway GFE’s, 1,000/day, and unlimited sex and lot’s of fun. Thai wives tend to have MORE excuses not to have sex than farang wives.
If you want to learn about thailand, then learn about thai men, … and understand why they go outside for sex, … so then the issue comes down to, … keep a woman home for what? Most thai men after 50, … live alone… if they have the financially ability
Remember thai men have a better advantage over farangs, and know more than us, and they can screwed 90% of the time, so the farang has no chance at all.
@bilbofarang: Thank you for such a refreshingly honest, accurate and informative post! Finally, someone that has the cajoles to dispense with the “PC” shit and tell the truth! Now, I need to find a way to make my way down to Rayong. Don’t let the inevitable flames you’re about to receive get to you- you are just being honest. Best Wishes!
I agree with bilbofarang about Thais. I had a similar experience with Thai women. I would never go to Thailand or get involved with a Thai woman ever again.
Well, there must be some good Thai girls coz Chris has got himself engaged – lovely looking girl btw! 🙂
I’m disillusioned with Western girls, not since coming to Thailand but long before then.
I just can’t fathom somehow that all TG’s are all only about the money.
not all are about money, but they are about security.
tai girls are all the same fuck them and leave them. that the only reason people go there
HEY Shawn let me tell u something if I was a single I will fuck you and live u like a toilet paper after I used to cleaned up my fast ass then I throw in the garbage !!!how u like it asshole …..so have a nice day!!!
Engaged? Chris? Wow! I wish I could show up for the party! Looks like Dee above had you pegged. lol! Must be a fine one, Congrats mate. Don’t let her make you quit the site!
What I have found is that if you make sex enjoyable for the women, they will always love it. (too bad toys are illegal in TH, wtf?) The love romance too. Act like a BF from time to time. I also heard the “woman-Viagra” is VERY effective, be careful what you wish for!
If you like boom-boom sex, stick to hookers, they are very used to it, and won’t complain. They just like to get paid by non-freaks.
And when you ever get married, get a pre-nup if you plan to share assets. Boy, that phrase “soapys for life” really sticks in the head! Oy!
Yeah i’ll have more details about this in a few days 😉
The funniest question I ever got in Thailand was from a what turned out to be bar girl who asked me “What does “Yee-Haw!” mean?” Every man should go to Bangkok at least once in their life. The girls are great. 🙂
I get chris, Thai people don’t. Because they just dont like the ugly truth about their country. They just think that their country is great, (Its just good i think) but they forget that if it wasn’t for the falangs Thailand would be like Cambodia or Laos.
Keep up the great work man
YES, I HEARD A LOT OF SHIT FARANGS THEY CAME TO THAILAND AND LIVE HERE.
WHAT IS THE REASON? YOU CAN NOT MAKE SHIT LIKE THIS IN YOUR COUNTRY, THAT RIGHT? (I AM DON’T TALK ABOUT THE GOOD ONE) THAT YOU KNOW YOURSELF. EVERYTHINGS HAVE TWO SIDE AND NO ONE PERFECT JUST TAKE WHAT DO YOU LIKE AND AVOID WHAT YOU DON’T LIKE IT. THE WORLD IS CRAZY ENOUGH!!! POSSIBLE JUST HELP EACH OTHER BETTER THAT I THINK AND DO IT. I LOVE THIS BLOGS MADE ME GET TO KNOWS MORE ABOUT FARANGS BEFORE I ALWAYS THINK THEY ARE GOOD BUT NOW DIFFERENT.
OR I DON’T HAVE CONNECTION WITH THEM THEN I DON’T KNOW BUT IN THE END I STILL EXCEPT IT BECAUSE PEOPLE ARE DIFFERENT ANYWAY, SOME GOOD SOME MAYBE BAD. YOU CAN’T CHANGE SOMEONE BUT YOU CAN CHANGE YOURSELF BETTER OR WHAT YOU THINK? OF COURSE!!! I LOVE MY COUNTRY AND WE HAVE SHIT ENOUGH NO NEED MORE OKAY!!!! WE KNOWS ABOUT THIS.
BACKGROUND OF FAMILY AND EDUCATION ARE VERY IMPORTANT THAT YOU KNOW AND HOW ABOUT THAILAND -THAT’S WHY???????????? I AM SURE EVERY- ONE WANT TO STAND IN THE GOOD POSITION AND STABLE IN LIFE. BUT THEY ARE NO CHANCES. IT’S A PITY.
Take Care!
Best wishes
Yes i agree, but some farangs like me came here when they were a kid. This blog is about thailand and the truth about if if you dont like it or it offends you, what are you doing here?
I know there are many sides to thatland. most of my friends are thai, my best friends too. so i get it. i didnt say thailand isnt good. Chill man, Chill
Dear john
This blog is about thailand and the truth about if if you dont like it or it offends you, what are you doing here? …. DID YOU ASKED ME???
because I LOVE THAILAND AND WANT TO KNOW WHAT ARE YOUR OPINION AND WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT tHAILAND. THAILAND IS IN MY BLOOD. I’M LOVE AND RESPECT,EXCEPT other COUNTRY TOO.WE ARE DIFFERENCE but WE ARE HUMEN THE SAME, THAT RIGHTS??????????????????
After work I’m get bored if I don’t have anything to do I jump to this blogs I like it and open my world my eyes my ears my mind ect, and i’m alone have a time, WHY NOT? I just found it without propose by google. And because I work and see a lot of Farangs around me most looking good behave well not same like in this blogs then make me interessted what are FARANGS think about the THIAS from this blogs – of course in here some very polite and gentelman some are not- okay I understand that noone same or perfect depend where are people from …. ( I meant background and education)
THE SAME : If THAILAND DON’T GIVE WHAT YOU WANT OR YOU ARE EXPECT , WHY ARE YOU STILL IN THAILAND??? IF YOU CAN’T NOT EXCEPT IT. (me, where I am not matter I’m following and improving for the good way I love it sometime even difficult and strict. I’M ALREADY DID IT.
I’M SURE NOWHERE PERFECT AND YOU CAN’T GET WHAT YOU WANT 100% LIKE YOU NEED THEN EXCEPT IT.
Take Care
Best wishes
Kon Bam,
This is a comment i left for someone else but i think it applies to you too (i dont have the time to reply sorry)
Farangs come here and marry thai girls because that girls treat them like a king. Whatever the reason may be (Money, love, sex, status etc.). And frankly Many farangs are tricked and they loose everything. som nom na
I’ve been here for 10 years and my friends are 99% thai. I also like it here and many people tell me im like a thai person because i’ve been here since i was 13.
Now coming here was not my choice and since i’ve practically been here all my life ill continue to live here.
And one thing to falangs: I just dont understand why you have to go and choose the ugliest, darkest, skoii girl that you can find in a bar…. most things that happen to you are a result of this… If you want a good girl dont even go to a bar or club because most girls there are …. well you know what i mean.
FALANGS come here for fun and sex…… and if it wasnt for farangs Thailand would be like cambodia, laos or even isan!!
So to most thai people: i love thailand, but next time you want to blame a falang you thank them first!
And to MOST falangs: Next time you wanna complain about a girl doing this and that to you, think about how and where you found her.
Thailand is not perfet, nowhere is, but i still love thailand, its also my country 😉
‘The truth is most of the girls in the ages of 16-22 are either looking for money or experience and fun’ You spend a lot of time contradicting yourself Chris. You’ve just ranted on about having to manipulate Thai girls, clearly they’re not having as much fun as you think. I’d be gutted if I can to manipulate to get things like that, I’d expect them to jump right away. Only thing that would explain this is that you’re a little bit urrrrgly ha ha
I’m not contradicting anything and your comment doesn’t even make sense bro.
Why am I losing my time reading this trash. It’s so wasted.
Umaaa. am not sure if all the Thai girls are all about money,,every where and everyone are different, am 28 years old and am been married with Ausis guy for 4 and half year, he”s 38 and he not a rich man ,he jus a hard working person and I still love him until today.So please don’t talk about all the Thai girls in negative ways. like I said every where and everyone are different ,And am a good and nice girl come Frome a good parent .when I riding this I felt upset, if u talking bad about Thailand or Thai girls ?? so don’t going back because u not welcome,,,U got it asshole !!!!!
i love your story. because it shown me the real side of young generation. according to wat u write here i guess your just around my age. i cant actually see anything wrong about what you say at all. its very true that mostly there are two type of girls around 16-23 but not just only thailand, generally everywhere else. the fact that what you say have offended most of that woman here because noone is like to hear the bad thing about their countries especially when they are woman, and by writting something like this they feel like you have insulted them. but who give a damn, people must understand wat you write here is about western men who are looking for fun/sex (which is a very acceptable things in western countries) and again cuz you keep looking for “sex” in mind, thats all you get, lower class girls (in asia) who want money to lets you touch them or curious girls who would like to discover the “size” or too innocent to let you fuck her and cry when u leave her. i dont think we should arguing about this post because i read it and keep in mind the awareness of young generation lifestyle and this post providing us a brief understanding about the “demand” and “supply” between culture diversity :)))
ah i need to add something more, i am not from thailand but im an asian girl 🙂 i have to admit that our culture have brought us up not just all about money, its about secure. lets me tell you what, i have been studying in aus and its how i see how the asian woman think about “secure” before falling for someone. how do i assumed so?
when im in asia, all my friends, family everyone i knows the first thing they would ask me about my bf is :”what does ur bf do?” or “whats his job?” ” is he rich?” all about secure
whem im in aus, all ppl i knows, the first thing they would ask me is: “are you happy?” or ” does he treat you well?” i guess here secure comes second???
Everyone wants the basics in life as first described by Maslow with the ‘Heirarchy Of Needs’.
Women, need security & have less opportunity to achieve this.
Money = security as it provides shelter & food. There are less opportunities for women especially in SEA.
However, money can’t buy love & the most important things in life are honesty, truth & unconditional love.
Hi Faraday
Exactly!!!
Hi Bam
Simple really isn’t it. I spent too many years running around looking for ‘things’ that would make me happy, & ofc they didn’t.
Good luck to you in whatever you do. 🙂
Hi Faraday
Thanks so much, very nice from you and I wish you the same okay. If everyone think like you our world will more nice, people more peace but just dream somehow because people are different anyway.
Yes,you are so correct. You can see how the person look like BUT you can not
see them soul and heart that´s problem. hmmm… make me a bit sad because soul and heart very important never easy to fine one!!!
“First of all the game I play is for the younger girls 16-22 I don’t know much about girls older than this because that’s not my thing so I can’t give suggestions on that but the girls in this age bracket I know a lot about. ”
I am the only one that think that the guy writing in here is an stupid pedofile??
I think you play with 16-22 years old because every woman older than that will not fall for your stupid tricks and i hope that one day all those woman you tricked, will get back to you and make you pay for it.
Dumbass it’s called Ephebophilia, and you think i can’t get older girls your even more of a dumbass, why would i want older when I like em around 18.
I liked the article – and I’ve found that not only to work in Thailand but in Nigeria and Ethiopia as well – curious girls; and they are young and treat them fine and everyone is happy.
Great read!! I think easier in Chiang Mai than Bangkok – seems Bangkok girls are a bit more worldly. Or maybe just because there are too many malls here!!
I couldn’t finish this story what you has wrote not because of angry or anything but just because understand that many kind of people in this world so everyone thinking different but just one thing that I want to tell you is …. you can’t judge anyone or any nationality …b4 you write the story you should to learn more and more understand about Thailand not only the dark side that you have learned .
You probably assume having read only stories on the dark side that I don’t know more, for this you would be mistaken. Thanks for reading.
Hey man, I’ve been reading your site, and you provide some interesting info. I’m just wondering if you realize what an utter little know it all cunt you come across as. Completely disrespecful of women and using them as your playtoys and giving lessons on others how to use them. If you really do the stuff you write – which I seriously don’t believe – have two girlfiends, bisexual orgies, and at the same time want to marry a virgin teen girl, the virgin teen girl and her family are going to find out about you and screw you so bad. I’ve seen some comments here about how people avoid you already. I don’t think you’ll last long in thailand. The people around you will figure out who you are with time, so keep up the good work disrespectful little biatch
Of course you don’t believe me Steven because you live in your little bubble and can’t comprehend how an asshole like me can have so much fun. The people close to me know it’s the truth that’s all i care about. You don’t think i’ll last too long in Thailand…I’ve been here 5 years about 14 days outside of the country in that time how long is your long? Pretty much every story i’ve posted here has a witness who can attest to the facts. Keep dreaming your life, I’m living mine…biatch
This sounds like more of the same from people who don’t like Chris helping people “have fun” at a good price, except “Steven” covered her tracks with good grammar. Steven, if you don’t think this stuff goes on all the time in Thailand, (and the rest of the world) you haven’t been here long enough to know much. Learning Thai fluently is a sign of respect to the Thai people, I’ll bet Chris earns respect wherever he goes. (almost, lol) That he exposes what some in Thailand prefer to keep secret (so they can make more money off of confused farangs) is just too bad if they don’t like it. It helps a lot of farang. Read the post from the guy who holed up in his hotel room in Pattaya because he can’t handle the action. If that guy would have studied this website, he would have had a better idea of how to enjoy himself in the land of smiles.
People express opinions – which is great & ofc how the world must be. But when some of the comments in those opinions get insulting & personal, it comes across as being immature.
I don’t know Chris, but he’s having fun & I don’t think anyone’s getting hurt in the process.
How is that a problem to some people? And why call him names?
Jealousy maybe….
I’m no longer allowing comments on this post, think people have said enough.